9 In Spice

20 Things I've Learned Since Being 20

1. Negativity is contagious. So don't spread it.
2. Wearing makeup is overrated, but yoga pants aren't.
3. You don't have to "go out" to have fun. Sitting on the couch watching ID channel is loads of fun too.
4. Not everyone will like you...and that's okay.
5. People change, grow apart, and grow up; you can't stop them.
6. Stop turning on "Private Session" on Spotify, and embrace that you listened to the same Taylor Swift song for 3 hours straight. Who cares.
7. There's no reason to compare yourself to others. You're unique and incomparable.
8. It's not a big deal. And, it's definitely not the end of the world. I promise. So let it go.
9. Eat more cookies. Dr. KayKay says they are good for your soul.
10. You don't need to have it all figured out. I don't think you ever do, actually.
11. A significant other should be a bonus in your life, not a necessity. And, compassion > passion.
12. I will never know who let the dogs out, and it bums me out.
13. When you're feeling down, dancing around your room to September - Earth, Wind, & Fire can fix it.
14. You choose your mood so choose to be happy. It's not easy, but it's possible.
15. Gummy vitamins will forever be brilliant. Same with shaped pancakes.
16. Stick to what you believe, and don't let anyone make you feel bad about it.
17. Boys, who reject you, sometimes will want you back. Don't. Do. It. Your heart and soul are too sacred. They don't deserve you.
18. You will never not be jealous of your animal that gets to sleep all day while you have to work. Never.
19. Be a good friend, and good friends will find you.
20. Be kind. ALWAYS. 

xx KayKay

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  • binggabrielle
    September 19, 2013 at 4:11 pm

    this is amazing, thank you

  • jennabradley
    September 19, 2013 at 6:32 pm


  • dzejlaaa
    September 19, 2013 at 11:28 pm

    thank you SO much for this. this is one of the most amazing things I've ever read! xxx

  • Monika
    September 20, 2013 at 5:12 am

    Thank you Dr. Kay Kay! This is amazing, gonna put it on my wall! 🙂 and thanks for the cookies 🙂 p.s. I will never know who let the dogs out??!! #sadmoment

  • SerenaN20
    September 22, 2013 at 8:10 pm

    This is awesome. I love it. I love you. You're an amazing inspiration. <3 🙂

  • Chilla
    October 6, 2013 at 5:42 am

    This is perhaps going to be my new bible in way 😀
    Well done, Doctor ;D

  • sarah_xoxo
    November 30, 2013 at 10:18 am

    As a 20 year old... this is perfect. Thanks KayKay!

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